Teaching English
in China - or being successful anywhere
It's all about
attitude. Period.
Someone on one
of the Lonely Planet discussion groups a while back
asked about teaching English in Asia. She
had heard some bad things.
I wrote a
response and related how my first nine months in ESL
had gone. Let me tell you the story:
It is not typical of first jobs anywhere - but it helps
make a point. But . .
. in those first months I lived in eight different
places. Literally from a stairwell closet to a
housesit where I wasn't to touch or use ANYTHING - to a
nice house overlooking the sea - but with no water to
flush the toilet . . .
Also in those
first months, my contract was cancelled by my initial
employer who decided to get out of the English teaching
business (it was a popular Japanese language school).
Following that I was moved from one city to another
for a short-term job where my employer routinely shorted
my wages. All the while my girlfriend
(later to be my wife) was having similar problems and
her employer wasn't paying her at all after the first
few months.
What a LOUSY
disaster! And this was back in 1992-3 when people
actually PAID recruiters for placements! Yes - we
paid for those lousy jobs and all those problems!
Aaaaayyyyeeeee!
Was it
all bad? No!
I hope I've not
convinced you to give up on teaching English abroad - because the good
part of the story follows . . .
Well, that
short-term job converted over to a nice
college job back in the original city where I had
started. The recruiter wanted
more money to bail me out of the situation THEY had put
me! I paid. What?!
WHY?!
Because
they found me a job with TWENTY Weeks PAID Vacation per
year and a FOUR-DAY work week. And only TWELVE
hours of classes per week. You read that right -
Yeah, that is the BIG TWO OH (20) WEEKS in paid vacation
time. So - in the
midst of all those troubles I went from ONE WEEK paid
vacation to - for literally the same wages - to almost a
half year off PAID and almost a part-time job.
This story is
the beginning of a long personally and financially
rewarding career in EFL/EFL/TEFL. From 1992
until 2007 when I "retired".
I KNOW
my RIGHTS!
Now . . . in the
midst of all that, I could have demanded my "rights" -
gotten overly assertive as most Westerners do in such
situations, had a fit and quit and gone back to America
- the whole thing a HUGE FAILURE and mistake.
"Grumble grumble, Teaching English S*cks!"
But I didn't.
I had the previous good fortune of two years in Africa
as a Peace Corps Volunteer and had gotten some excellent
cross-cultural training. I waited, watched and let
things play out. If not for those two first bad
jobs - I may have never made the jump to teaching at
colleges and universities with LONG PAID vacations.
BTW, my wife made the same transition and we taught at
colleges and universities in four Asian countries over the next 10-12 years. And we have
had a GREAT life with lots of travel and even financial
security. Thank you ESL!
I KNOW
my RIGHTS!
Back to that (my
rights) . . .
You can decide
what path worked best for me in this circumstance.
BTW, also back to the lady on the Lonely Planet
discussion group. In the posting I called those
initial months a POSITIVE experience. Why?
Because after all that - there was truly NOTHING an
employer could throw at me that would shake me up.
I would, after that time, just take a deep breath and
see where it all went. And it almost always went
to wonderful places.
The lady on
Lonely Planet said she saw it as a very NEGATIVE
experience.
But . . . but .
. . how could it be negative when it opened the door to
a decade of great jobs, travel, savings and a wonderful
life?
Attitude
I hope you can
see what I am saying here. YOU decide - you really
DO decide what works in your life and what doesn't.
And YOU make it work - or not. I'm not saying to
call a pig a rose. DO be aware of what is going on
in your life - but do choose your battles carefully.
Let things play out a bit before bailing out.
Be patient,
learn a few cultural skills and you will find a WHOLE
NEW WORLD out here, just waiting for you. And
while you are making a success of it all, you will meet
and see others fall by the wayside as they exercise
their "rights" and turn their lives into negative
nightmares. You WILL meet them and they will
always be spewing their negative attitudes and ideas,
hoping to poison you as well. Don't let them do
it.
Don't be one of
them. Come on board for a GREAT new life abroad.
It really is possible. But just like with jobs
"back home", you will meet bad bosses, bad companies,
bad situations. And, just like "back home" you can
overcome them with the right attitude.
Come on board.
A life you can't even imagine awaits you.
Nike says, "Just
do it" - and they are so right.
As you cruise
this website you will find other pages that will help
you learn how to deal with cultural issues. Please
do read them and take them to heart.
They can make
all the difference in your new life. I promise.
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"Twenty
years from now you will be more disappointed
by the things that you didn't do than by the
ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines.
Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the
trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream.
Discover." -- Mark Twain |
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